To Lie Or To Tell The Truth

What’s better…

…to lie and avoid causing discomfort or unhappiness to the other person?

or…

…to tell the truth and risk hurting the other person?

In my view, we should never hide the truth with the person who loves you and know better about you. "Honesty is the best policy". If you are honest you never need to worry that may cause discomfort. If the person is so close and can understand you better so there will not be any question of pain. Sure there would be a bitter day or days during to digest the truth but slowly it will wipe off the discomfort.

When there is no understanding, you have to hide the truth and make the situations to make the person understand about the truth. It will take sometime but make a peaceful solution to the situation.

We too must think about what happens when we don’t tell the truth. When we keep our thoughts and feelings hidden. What good does it do for the other person? In the short term, it may spare them some time away from hurt. But in the end, the truth will always surface. And by then, the pain brought upon the other person could be much, much worse.

There are times, you need to hide some things for time being with the person. According to the situations, we feel to hide it and want to confess about it later. And the truth should be always disclosed by you if it is important and related to you. And never give the chance to others to tell the truth in a wrong way. So be clear in your views and thoughts with the person you love and trust. You dont need to explain whole world about you, because when you are honest and truthful then all others will automatically come to know the truth.

If you want to share the happiness by hiding then definately go ahead to keep them secret and give a sweet and memorable surprises. Surprises will make so happy to feel about it and people will never forget them. So happy things can always be shared by keeping them secret for sometime.

Hope For The Best–Prepare For The Worst

Most people hope for things to turn out positive in their lives.Some people seem to think and attract bad happenings or misfortune. Is it all coincidence or are there underlying mechanisms that can influence outcomes?

Let us suppose that there are no mechanisms and everything is coincidence and randomly happen. If that is the case, then any amount of positive thinking will not have any affect on reality outside of your conscious awareness. And negative thinking will create a fear in us and make us so helpless in both physically and mentally. Try not be around the situations or with the people who make you so depressed or continuosuly think on a single thing and destroy yourself.


Hope For The Best

Be a Optimist(Someone who always make you happy with good suggestions and deeds) than Pessimist(Someone who always make you feel low and worse) . Think high and reap the happy results. When you hope for the best, you at least hope for the possibility of positive outcomes if there is that possibility inherent in the outcome of any particular situation.

The good thing about positive thinking or more accurately, having a positive attitude, is that it’s less stressful to you, it is a much better way to interact with people, and your actions become more focused on what needs to be accomplished. Rathar than having the negative thinking which makes us so depressed and being closed in a boundary, think out the circumstance in a positive way. Gather all the points which can make a situation to be good rather than worse at that moment.Leave the past situations which made you think negative or worse, take the good things and memories which made your world till today.

So Hope the best for all the situations, support your family, friends and all well wishers. Support all the people who are literally down and make their outcome to be happy. Positive thinking will always achieve your goals.

Prepare For The Worst
Make it possible to prepare for the worst without being a pessimist. Keep logical about any situation and potential situations and be prepared to move into survival mode instantly.

If you prepare for the worst, you will always increase your chances for survival. If everything is ready and clear, there will not be any chance to blame others for the situation. As a normal person everybody will be able to handle the current situation, despite of having a positive hope prepare for the worse cases also, to come out of it even though it is very hard to digest and to be in it.

Be health consious.Keep aware of your surroundings in emergency situations. Most people will not be prepared, adding to their confusion and panic.Confusion increases the danger level for everything, so stay calm and prepare for the worst possible situations always.It is we ultimately who are going to suffer and travel in life.

So Have Faith in God,Believe in yourself, have a positive Hope, prepare for the worst cases. Love everyone and go along with the Life Happily.