Monday, January 24, 2011

Our Deepest Fear

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.
Your playing small does not serve the world.

There is nothing enlightened about shrinking
So that other people won't feel insecure around you.
We were all meant to shine, as children do.
It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone.

And as we let our own light shine,
We unconsciously give other people permission to do the same
As we are liberated from our own fear,
Our presence automatically liberates others.

Friday, January 21, 2011

“One of the worst feelings in the world is having to doubt something that you thought was unquestionable.”

Whether religion, or the one you have fallen in love with, or the family who has raised you since birth, there are certain things in life that you consider to be reliable, dependable and unchanging. These are the things in life that you would never dream of having to question. So with those things in mind, what if you suddenly were put in a position of doubt? Of question?

I love it because it makes me think. It makes me think about all of the things and people I hold closest to my heart, and what were to happen if I lost them, or my trust in them. And then it also sends me a subtle reminder to appreciate all of the love and support I’m given each and every day. That if I reached out for a helping hand or a supportive embrace, it would be there. And I am forever grateful for the ones in my life that I know will always be there.

But with this knowledge now in mind and having experienced times of doubt in people I never imagined I’d question, I like to believe it’s made me a stronger person. It’s opened my eyes to a newfound appreciation. It’s allowed me to put my best foot forward. Hopefully, you can take something valuable away from this quote, just as I have.

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

How to Choose a Suitable Life Partner

Marriage is a wonderful thing and every person wants to find a suitable life partner for themselves as it is a very serious lifetime decision for both partners. Marriage is not only about two personalities, but it is about two families and in some cases cultures joining together as one. Two hearts come together to build a relationship therefore this decision should be taken with caution.

When you choose a suitable life partner for yourself at first you start out as strangers to each other and with time you get to know more about one another, that’s why patience and understanding is a very important essence, which will make your relationship grow stronger.

Choosing a suitable life partner is always a hard decision as it involves you giving your heart to a person whom you like and choose to love yet in the beginning no very little about. It is very important that you should choose a life partner who is caring, affectionate and has respect for you.

1. Look for a suitable life partner who is not only beautiful on the outside but also within, one who will stick by your side for the rest of your life and be able to have a better understanding of you. Choose a life partner who is able to look into your eyes and can honestly say that you’re the right choice for him or her.

2. We all know that marriage is a strong bound with which we can share with that special someone. Therefore your life partner should have a good sense of who you are, and they should understand your needs very well. He or she must be responsible and comfortable with the relationship otherwise you just might wind up spending your whole life regretting why you did not choose someone else for a life partner.

3. A suitable life partner should be one who is on the same mental and emotional level as you so that there will be fewer disagreements, and if there are any arguments you can sort them out with understanding. It’s important that you take the time to know each other very well before you decide to tie the knot because if you do not do so then it might create a lot of problems in the future.

4. Marriage can be such a beautiful thing if you find a suitable life partner of your choice, otherwise you might end up shading so many tears instead, that’s why the whole decision on choosing the right life partner needs to be handled with a lot of care. There are many websites and companies out there now offering a chance for all those people who are looking for suitable life partners and those who simply want to share their experience about married life to freely discuss these things on a social platform.

5. If you truly take the time to know your life partner right from the start it’s easy to work towards creating a happy marriage with each other.